Watch your personal dynamics, and your interpersonal skills, particularly from a parenting relationship for a child behaviour development view point, and gain skills as a parent
Time for team members to know each other, become familiar with each others unique skills and how best to utilise them to harness the power of colaboration success.
Partners in distressed relationships reciprocate more uncaring actions than those in satisfied relationships. Successful couples keep their relationships rewarding both by maintaining existing caring behaviours and by initiating new ones. They also enhance their relationships in other ways: for instance, by livening up sex and developing common interests. Exchanging a high number of caring actions
Shame is mistakenly called one of the core emotions, suggesting it is one of the basic emotions that humans feel. This is not correct. Although people often do not recognize it in themselves, shame is an underlying drive for many of the things we do and say and for many of the patterns we develop in relationships. Understanding more about shame and its role in our life is the beginning of
When you know the facts about suicide YOU CAN SAVE LIVES! ASK direct questions: “Are having thoughts of suicide?” “Do you wish you were dead?” “Have you had thoughts of killing yourself?” “Sometimes, with all this going on in a person’s life, they might have thoughts of giving up. Are you having thoughts of suicide?” Don’t hesitate to raise the subject. Talking with people about suicide
Every relationship has its breaking point, and that point will vary greatly between different couples. If you are concerned that your relationship is on the verge of break-up, this article is for you. Let's face it, we usually have a hard time when it comes to making compromises and as a society we tend to value our privacy, sometimes more than we do our partners. So this may be the right time for you to do a reality check:
“As I am not at peace, I must have decided against peace. I made the decision myself! But I can also decide otherwise. I will to decide otherwise because I want peace....I do not feel guilty because the spirit of love will undo all the consequences of my adverse decision if I will allow it.... I will to allow it ... by allowing myself to decide for the spirit of love within me....What would the spirit of love do now..... For me and for others ... ?” A Course in Miracles
Sometimes there is trouble in paradise that leaves feelings of distance and disconnection between you. Lack of appreciation, lack of gratitude, lack of acceptance and judgment soon follow. This is a great opportunity to practice relationship repair, and one great strategy for repairing relationships is the generation of caring moments for the expression of love. One great way of doing this is to create and use the Relationships Jars Exercise. Here is how it works:
If we have been forced into a situation of fear where we have had no choice but to shut down and avoid the situation mentally, physically or both, and had no one to turn to for love, support and reassurance, then we set the development of a fearful reflex in place. This reflex develops quickly because the reward is great when we can shut off painful thoughts and memories, and with them go the painful feelings...
Love Potion Side effects: You may experience side effect with this potion that could possibly include relaxation, excitement, enthusiasm, giggling, having fun, seeing others smile at you for no apparent reason, feelings of youthfulness and radiant energy! If this occurs, reach out and share it! Leave a comment at the bottom of this page and let others know!
What's in it for me? This question sits at the front of everyone's mind when they are considering counselling for themselves or their relationship. Every little change in your relationship can add up to huge positive change over a short space of time. It takes real insight to recognize and bring change to all the little intricate aspects that go into building the journey we call “relationship.” Focusing on these aspects and molding ...
My goal is to help you come to know your true self and achieve your highest potential. Only your counsellor can truly share wisdom with you on an ongoing basis without bias or judgement. Just think what it would be like to have these advantages all flowing in your life.
Having awareness of your many aspects, your love language, and your personality types, gives you the control back, empowers you, if you have tried everything, give this book a go!
Have you tried everything to rescue your relationship, and nothing seems to work? This course will help to build further on the foundation of self-development and could help save your marriage!
Advance the self development of connection with the truth of who you are. A first step in any counselling work is to develop the ability to step back from your many aspects and learn how to observe
Having awareness of your aspects gives you personal development, empowers you with the ability to make positive and constructive choice in how you use the many parts of yourself to best advantage!.
From this foundation you will be able to watch your personal dynamics, engage by getting to know your parts and discover how you play out in your relationships
How is the choice of anger helping me? It is not! Choosing anger creates discomfort in me, distances people I care about, and gives rise to thoughts of blame, judgement, and later on, guilt and remorse. When I feel discomfort from the anger my mind plays tricks on me and begins to blame others for my choice in feelings, “He/she makes me feel mad!” This gives the power of self control away and hands that power to others.
Thousands of couples have integrated these relationship communication skills into their relationships experiencing more loving communication and understanding with less confusion
The true fact of the matter is that most couples hide their unhappiness. The lack of communication in relationships is most definitely exposed when you’re not even sure if your partner is happy anymore. Most of this unhappiness is caused by lack of communication, insecurities within themselves, dishonesty, and lack of direction in the relationship.
Educate your self and your workplace teams about how to prevent workplace bullying with this awesome book developed by counsellor Ronald Cruickshank a great read to transform your workplace dynamics!
Enhance your ability to manage your workplace dynamics, and your interpersonal dynamics, with this fantastic e-Course addressing bullying in the workplace
Discover the best ways to fix the 8 most common challenges with the 8 key tips that modern parents face when raising their children - amaze yourself at the effectiveness of these easy to follow steps!
With awareness of these 8 key tips for motivational parenting knowing you and your children's love language gives you more insight and empowers you with an ability to make positive and constructive..
Experience a sample of the Creating a Spiritual Relationship 12 week program from Pathways of Light Spiritual College. Bring healing to your couple relationship
Removing the Blocks” A 12 Week Program from Pathways of Light® Spiritual CollegeBeing in Relationship is an important step in your life. You want your relationship to be the happiest it can be and last a lifetime. If this is what you seek then this Program might be the most important you have ever done.
“Think but how holy you must be, from whom the Voice for God calls lovingly unto your brother, that you may awake in him the Voice that answers to YOUR call.” (A Course in Miracles T26:x76)These amazing courses now available in Australia, and facilitated by me,
Being in relationship can create it’s challenges at times. To help keep things running smoothly and on course towards attaining your goals and aspirations your relationship can really benefit from the engagement of a relationship service that is encouraging and provides routine scheduled relationship health check ups. I will remind you when each session is due and we will schedule…
Explore the process of emotional suppression and discover how our defensive shield, in an attempt to protect us, actually suppresses our connection to loving energy creating insurmountable problems and issues, and making solutions almost impossible to see! Discover how to recognise this process, and how to change it! Make a connection to loving energy your default starting today!
Attend this Healing Inner Child Seminar and bring healing to your inner child past tapes, re-birthing to peace, love and an inner calmness that is your natural inheritance!
Keep your counsellor skills on track and engage in counsellor supervision sessions with a counsellor that has 20 years experience - face-to-face and online options are available for you..
This Accessing Inner Wisdom Meditation is used during the Pathways of Light Spiritual Awakening Program Complimentary free Workshop Program experience.
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My counsellor rooms are based at Hervey Bay, you can find a map here, where the consultation room is comfortable, well appointed, private, with en-suite amenities and facilities for chilled water or a hot drink always available. Home Visit Counselling. Home or Office visits are also available to surrounding areas.
Trouble occurs when there is no conflict resolution and anger erupts when you are both working on different issues, or different problems, not working together
After 10 years of couple and relationship counselling around the world, counsellor Ron Cruickshank has identified some key strategies to bring bickering and argument to a stop! Restore harmony now!
Are you constantly being caught up in argument? Sometimes it just seems to happen over the slightest little thing. Find strategies to stay out of bickering now!
Just imagine having all the energy you need to pursue things that bring you the feelings of love, peace, joy and happiness if you resolve the turmoil in relationships
Learn what gets in the way and why most relationships are not working, and find out how to make your relationship fantastic with the 10 things to give up e-book!You can not afford to miss out on having these skills in your relationship! Tuula says, "Hi Ron, I have read…
Bring peace, love, and calmness into your life with this free Body Scan Meditation from counsellor Ron Cruickshank. Filmed in Samoa at a beautiful tropical waterfall, this meditation is relaxing and builds new neural pathways to make peace and calmness a default in your life.
Thank you so much. We still use some techniques we learned from you and they do work. We will be in contact soon. Thanks so much, we both appreciate it. Kind regards, T. L.
Thank you Ron for adding that into the letter. I think it is beautifully written, professional and appropriate for my circumstances. I could not ask for more. You have been a superb counsellor for me and I will keep you posted over how I go over the next few weeks. Thank you for being there and for the strategies you have put in place for me should there be another emergency. L. H.
Dear Ronald, thank you for our chat yesterday - you always bring me back to the truth and I just appreciate this so much. Thank you - I will be back if that is OK. I value our discussions immensely. Lots of love and have a great weekend, Marissa.
This seminar was helpful to me as it reinforces positive healthy relationships ideals. The most valuable thing I gained through this seminar was the importance of meditation :) Carla
Wow Ron! Each time I visit your site it looks better and better. Loved the meditation... great stereo sound... just what I needed today :) Thank you, much love as always, Julieanne.
Thank you Ron for your support. I appreciate your response immensely and would recommend you to anyone that requires counselling. Regards Justin.
Use this Seven Sense Meditation process as many times in a day, and every day, as you can. Repetition of this process puts you in a space of 'now' which is the only time love can flow. Repeating this process also develops new neural pathways that will become a new unconscious habit, framing your life with love, joy and peace! Do it now...