Relationships

It’s all about changing our habitual responses to ourselves and to others. Pick up a pen and paper, write your name down…. Now swap the pen to the other hand and write your name again. Did you get the same result? How long and how much practice will you need to learn the new habit of writing with the other hand to develop it to such an extent that it will be automatic?

What is the anger and resentment all about? There is a good chance it is all about what you are not getting rather than what you want. Anger and resentment are a space of non-peace, and we all want to be in a space of love, joy and peace. So whose behaviour can you change? Really when it comes down to it, we can only choose to change our own behaviour. You can not make him do anything if he does not will to do it.

Shutting down and reacting is a sign of weakness and that the person views themselves as not good enough. Connecting to love and responding is a demonstration of strength and a sign that the person recognises the truth of who they truly are, not just seeing this worth in them selves but also in all others. Be wiser, slower and more discerning about choosing a new partner and use this longer time frame

Every relationship has its breaking point, and that point will vary greatly between different couples. If you are concerned that your relationship is on the verge of break-up, this article is for you. Let's face it, we usually have a hard time when it comes to making compromises and as a society we tend to value our privacy, sometimes more than we do our partners. So this may be the right time for you to do a reality check:

The true fact of the matter is that most couples hide their unhappiness. The lack of communication in relationships is most definitely exposed when you’re not even sure if your partner is happy anymore. Most of this unhappiness is caused by lack of communication, insecurities within themselves, dishonesty, and lack of direction in the relationship.